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my sister going to a funeral today for someone she worked with :(
she says every called him happy mick cause always happy no matter what,
well he committed suicide , she said it was because he found out his wife was
having a affair and when he asked her to end it she said no but still wanted to
live with him and kids ,
sister said he was gutted and could not except her with someone else
but in the paper it said LOVING WIFE
would you if you were his family stop her going to the funeral i put this to
my sister and she said she didn`t know what she would do,
can not see how you can be a loving wife and have a affair but still want
everything at home to be ok
odd one this i don`t suppose she new he would commit suicide. :(
This item was edited on Thursday, 9th October 2008, 12:59
If i were family i would not make a scene on the day of the funeral for the childrens sake (that`s not fair they just lost their Father).
Maybe some harsh words with her behind closed doors at a later date though.
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Perhaps his family should remember their `beloved` son committed the ultimate selfish act, leaving two kids fatherless.
I`d be so angry at him, I`d doubt I`d have any left for her.
Cared for his kids, did he?
Evidently not.
Not only was he willing to have them go through life without their dad, but I would assume he wants them to hate their mother for `making` him do it?
Selfish git. >:(
bowfer - I totally agree.
Me too.
I went through a very bad time 4 years back and the thought crossed my mind on more than 1 occasion. Every time it did it was the thought of my daughter being without her dad that stopped me being a selfish twat.
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It grips my s***, it really does.
We lost a mate about a month ago, quite suddenly.
He`d had skin cancer for years, but his death was still quite sudden in that he was fine on the Thursday, died on the Friday.
He hated his ex-wife too, but he doted on his two young daughters.
Poor sod would have done anything just to get one more day with them, I guarantee it.
Then you get some d*******, in otherwise perfect health, willingly doing this...
I doubt I`d want to attend this idiot`s funeral, I`d probably boycott it myself. >:(
:B I couldnt contemplate taking my own life to be honest, even though iv`e had some pretty rough moments in the past, just makes me wonder what state of mind you`d have to be in to actually carry it out, everyone of us here accepts its the ones that get left behind that suffer, but iv`e always wondered personally about how low mentaly you`d have to be to actually carry it out, the will to survive is part of our integral make up, you wouldnt knowingly put yourself in a position where you knew that the consequences would mean your own death, we take calculated risks sure, but being of sound mind gives you that safeguard.
My eldest brother when he was alive drove a train, and had 2 "jumpers" head on under the wheels of his loco, both turned out to have serious mental health problems, both turned out to be depressed schizophrenics, they wernt even in the same world as us to do what they did.
This guys loss to his family and kids must have been catostrophic and maybe his actions were tied to some other underlying mental issues we and even he was not aware of, i always think the saying suicide is the cowards way out is an unfair statement when your of sound mind, the line is quite easy to see, when your clinically depressed though the lines get severely blurred, its just not that cut and dried i dont think :B
This item was edited on Friday, 10th October 2008, 12:50
Agree with Bowfer - totally selfish.
why take life so seriously..its not like you are going to make it out alive
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I am with Spangles.
You would have to be bloody low to even consider it an option, let alone see it through.
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I think this is one of those things that is very hard to understand.
If it is done from a purely selfish position then must be condemned in the strongest way, if done from a mental problem position then it`s very hard to put one self in their shoes to understand why they did it.
At least he didn`t top his kids first and then himself like a couple of recent cases.
A tragedy for those left behind regardless of the motive.
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