Page 1 of Boring self pitying time agaian folks :(

Just a wee update on how things are at the moment. Further to my self pitying post  regarding the breakup of our sons relationship in December 2014 I now realise that he has had a lucky escape. I am , as is my good lady, extremely saddened at the repercussion for their three bairns. However it is now abundantly clear to us that his ex-partner is an extremely violent and volatile person who has lost any sense of decency or dignity. Our wee grand-daughter, our lassies bairn, was due to be in the same class as her older cousin in a 3-2 class . As our grand-daughter has just finished P1 we thought that this would be a good thing to be in the same class as her older ( He has just finished P2) cousin. However it has all changed, our sons ex-partner demanded that her son, the weans cousin, not to be in the same class. FFS what is it with some people. Jeezus H Christ so now a 6 year old bairn is a target because she shares the same name as her ex-partner. Sorry folks but I am , as is my good lady, totally sickened , hurt and quite honestly disgusted that a "Parent" can act so bitterly to an innocent 6 year old. That said, she is the one making a fool of herself and everyone can see that. Sorry folks, I know personal stuff seems self pitying but we are sick to the pit of out stomachs.

Choagy

stuff like this saddens me, I have friends who unfortunately have had their exs use their children as pawns in their mind games :( It doesn't make sense does it, surely any parent just wants what's best for their kids, and parents make sacrifices for them.

if it helps you to get it off your chest, you type away, as you know there's always some-one here who will listen and with a bit of luck give you some helpful advice and support. I don't think I have any good advice, apart from cliche ridden stay strong etc, unfortunately, but if I can help, I will.

fingers crossed with time things will get better and sort themselves out.

actually when you mentioned this before, I mentioned one of my mates, his ex moved to other side of country with their son and daughter. I saw the "kids" a while ago, and they're both doing really well, despite living with their evil mum, the son is now a dad himself.

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This item was edited on Tuesday, 28th June 2016, 20:55

It's always horrible when the kids suffer, I hope things calm down in time.

Reminds me of the famous Philip Larkin poem...

Quote:
“They f*** you up, your mum and dad.
They may not mean to, but they do.
They fill you with the faults they had
And add some extra, just for you.

But they were f***ed up in their turn
By fools in old-style hats and coats,
Who half the time were soppy-stern
And half at one another's throats.

Man hands on misery to man.
It deepens like a coastal shelf.
Get out as early as you can,
And don't have any kids yourself.”

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